Touch her shoulder, upper arm, or cheek and say her name. A simple, quiet “hey” is still the most effective way to get her attention. “I need you for a moment” or “just one more thing” is a great, noncommittal way to hold her attention for an end of the date kiss. Move in for a big, full-body hug to see if she’s feeling equally romantic.
“Can I kiss you?” “Can we kiss?” “Is it okay if I kiss you right now?”
“I want to kiss you right now. " Unless she says “no,” move in slowly after you say it. “I’d love a kiss before I go. " “Let’s kiss. " “Write her a note saying “kiss me?” or “I want to kiss you,” if you think she’d like the cute, romantic gesture. Then move in wordlessly. [1] X Research source
Move in slowly. Half-close your eyes Let her come part way, meeting you for the kiss. Hold her close with a hug, keeping your faces close together. If she keeps eye contact, move in.
“I’m sorry. I had a wonderful time tonight– I’ll see you around. “I misread things, I’m sorry. Have a great night. " “I didn’t mean to put you on the spot like that, I’m sorry. “[2] X Research source
If you want to make this a romantic kiss, pick a setting that matches the mood. Don’t just kiss her at the mall, or at a mundane moment. Plan ahead for something special.
You may also find that it’s much easier to ask this girl for a kiss if you’re alone with her. Take the pressure off of yourself as well as off of her!
Don’t touch her too much, at first. Put your hand on your shoulder or your hand when you talk to her, or put your arm around her, intentionally brush your arm against hers. Find a reason to sit close to her, so that your shoulders and thighs are touching.
Try not to make this assumption unless you’re reasonably sure. It is good to be confident, but try to keep a level head about the situation.
Try not to make this assumption unless you’re reasonably sure. It is good to be confident, but try to keep a level head about the situation.
Imagine that you are in a movie. The “right moment” might feel like the scene when the hero kisses the girl. Don’t build it up too much – but keep the ambiance in mind.
It’s better to wait than to kiss her at the wrong time. If she is sad, or angry, or otherwise bothered by something, a first kiss may not be the way to distract her. Kiss her when she’s in a good mood and receptive to being kissed.
