If you’re asking your crush to go on a specific date, focus the conversation on that. For example, if you want to take them to a movie, talk with them about a new release.
“I really like talking with you. Would you like to grab coffee together sometime?” “I’ve been thinking recently, would you like to go see a movie with me?” “You seem really wonderful. Would you be interested in grabbing dinner?”
Try referring to the last conversation you had with them. For example, if they mentioned a big test or work project, ask them how it went. Talk about their interests. If you know your crush is a fan of a specific band, ask about their new album. If they have a favorite sports team, talk about a recent game.
Unless you know your crush enjoys them, you should probably avoid crass jokes. Even if you don’t intend to, crude jokes or comments might make your crush uncomfortable or nervous.
Even if you’ve known your crush for a while, if you had a great conversation or fun time together, don’t wait to text them and let them know how much you enjoyed it. Your first text message can be as simple as “I just wanted to say, I really enjoyed our conversation today. ”
In general, you should only delay responding to the first text. If you always keep your crush waiting, they may get impatient or doubt your interest.
