You never know what you’re going to get with a Gemini, so if you’re looking for a girl to be consistent and always caring for you, you’d be better off courting a different sign, Virgo. She can be submissive and feminine but also dominant and masculine. If she’s a true Gemini, she’ll have a balance .
A gemini girl is the type who can “dish it out” and also take it. She can take a joke if you poke fun at her flirtatiously, but you better expect her to have a cutting, witty remark to make back at you!
A Gemini benefits well from a person who can reign in the more radical sides of her disposition. A person who brings out their immaturity could lead to dangerous situations, while a person who brings out their darker, serious side could lead to no fun. It’s best if you are well-balanced yourself.
This unpredictability gets to certain people. It’s easy to mistake it for her not being loving or caring enough, when really she does care, she just needs to do her own thing. What’s more, she’s seeing if you’ll be around when she gets back.
When you’re with her, talk to her about the book you’re reading. Ask her if she’d like to go to a museum. Mention an article you read the other day about a little known current event. She’ll find you intriguing and wonder what it is she can learn from you.
She doesn’t need someone who’s just dominating enough or just submissive enough – she needs someone who can handle and complement whichever side she’s currently showing.
Since Gemini needs someone who can stimulate her mind, ask her questions. Pose thoughts or theories. Talk to her about what you’re thinking or wondering about. You may open her up and get onto an exciting ride!
Don’t feel pressured to keep this up all the time. She has two sides – once you’ve shown her that you can handle her more difficult side (the curious, adventurous one), show her that you can relax, too, in pajamas and with a movie and take-out.
Remember: this isn’t all about you. While she is very hesitant to get into a relationship, she is by no means unfaithful or unloving. Half of why she is hard to pin down is because she wants to make sure that when she is, it’s totally and completely worth it.
Keep her guessing with your personality, too. If you’re not outdoorsy, ask her to go on a hike. If you’re not huge into music, offer to go to the opera. If she thinks she can’t pin you, you’ll have her pinned.
If her independent streak bothers you, open up a forum for communication about it. She’ll love talking to you, knowing how you feel, and explaining how she feels. She’ll likely appreciate your concern and try to please you as much as she can.
Think of this as a declaration of love and not something that’s aggravating. All it means is that she cares about you and wants to be sure you’re hers. Do keep in mind though, that if you purposefully make her jealous, she’ll be onto you and she likely won’t put up with it.
Simply accepting that these two dynamics of her personality are here to stay is the biggest challenge for any partner of a Gemini. Once you reach that point, the rest of the relationship will be smooth sailing.
