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Know exactly what you want to do – she’ll be attracted to your determination knowledge. Tell her exactly where you’d like to take her to dinner or what you would like to do this weekend. Who could refuse an offer delivered with such confidence and desire? Keep it traditional. Don’t get her alone in a dark room and start loosening your belt. Be romantic and slow-to-start. She needs to be courted above all else.

She is looking for a partner who will be a constant. Who can help her not worry and put her mind at ease. If you engage in a game of cat-and-mouse or tug-of-war, she won’t be having it. She wants to know that you are into her and only her and don’t plan on going anywhere. In short, she needs to trust you.

She’ll love it if you can talk about current events, politics, literature, music, history, science, and everything in between. If you can keep up with her, she’ll know you deserve her and are worthy. So start reading up!

A lot of understanding Virgo will be reading her. Sometimes you’ll be wrong, but if you’ve built up a friendship, you should be pretty good at this by now. But if worse comes to worse, you could openly ask her! She’ll appreciate your directness as long as you’re tactful and diplomatic.

That isn’t to say you need to be trendy. No, no, no – there are pieces that are timeless that Virgo will always appreciate. A good button-down shirt, a nice jacket – even a nostalgic vintage tee will garner her approval. As long as you have some thought into your look, she’ll notice.

So when you find her organizing your closet by thread count, don’t be surprised. This is just her. You shouldn’t go about changing your ways – unless you’re of the type that leaves pizza on the floor for later. Virgo doesn’t need a partner that’s as clean as she is, but she doesn’t want a slob!

To keep her wanting more, talk to her about everything. Engage her mind. It could be about literally anything. If she wants to talk about 18th century Swiss art, great. If she wants to talk about the Kardashians, great. Show her that you can handle every side of her and her mind.

When you see her thinking, ask her what’s going on. If she doesn’t open up, don’t leave. She may just be feeling the waters or uncomfortable asking for assistance. Let her know you’re there if and when she needs you. When you get to know her well, odds are you’ll have a grip on at least a few of the reasons she’s worried. Try to make her plate less full by picking up the slack. Does she need to run errands? Clean the house? What can you help her with that gives her more time to relax?

Things may take a bit longer with her because of this. Though Virgo will always be punctual, she probably knows by now to allot more time for specific endeavors. If she’s the creative type, she could be devoted to her art for days until its just right. She’s a modern-day Goldilocks!

Sometimes Virgo is quiet about her emotions, too. If you want to know how she’s thinking or feeling, you may have to ask. It’s not because she doesn’t have feelings for you; it’s just because she finds emotions to be an incredibly personal matter.

So before you say you’ll do anything, make sure you can actually do it. Don’t make promises or commitments you can’t keep. And if you absolutely must break your promise, have good intentions and explain your situation fully. Then, she’ll appreciate your honesty and your attempt at accommodating her.

Watch your temper. Gentle Virgo is turned off by unwarranted anger and rage. Listen to her when she tries to talk to you. [14] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021. Usually what they tell you is important, or she wouldn’t bother telling you!

Virgos are really sensitive and look for a steady partner that will be loyal and faithful. Virgos can be flirty, but once they’re in a relationship they are completely committed. The man who gets a Virgo will be the only man in her life.