Whatever document you’re supposed to receive, you might get lucky and the court may only require personal service (meaning you, and only you, can be served). Or, the server might be only required to post it to your door. Most papers require only what those in the industry call sub-service. This means that whoever answers the door is presumed in charge of your residence and can be served on your behalf. Even if they’re uncooperative, the server can serve then as a John/Jane Doe and put a description in his/her affidavit or Return of Service.

If you have visitors, instruct them to call you while they’re en route and call when they’re at your door. If they’re old school and don’t have a cell phone or cell coverage is spotty or non-existent, tell them to knock a certain number of times.

Follow all steps in the prior Part, with the following additions: When at work, have everyone just tell the server that you no longer work there. This may not fly or you may not get the cooperation if you are being sued for something you did while working or at work. However, if it’s a personal lawsuit, then this tactic may work, depending on where you work and what your role is. Make sure that all members of your household watch their surroundings. Again, if someone suspicious is visible, do not approach. If possible, exit through another door. Instruct minors not to talk to any kind of stranger.