Ask your date to an art show, or invite them to a painting class. Ask them to go to an arcade. If you’re into music, invite your date to a record store to talk about music and your favorite bands. Make a picnic and spend time feeding ducks in the park.
Try mini golf or bowling. Play pool. Go to a carnival or theme park.
Make a list of stories about you that people usually find interesting. Write down a list of interesting facts you know. List the five most interesting things that have happened to you.
If you’re a music buff, wear a T-shirt with your favorite band’s logo. Accessorize with your handmade jewelry. Choose a great pin-up dress if you’re into vintage.
Gush about the activity. Say, “I’m so excited we decided to try this!” Point out things you like about the place. Say, “Wow, I love how they decorated the walls with local art. ”
Say, “That shirt looks great on you,” or “Wow, I think those are the coolest shoes I’ve ever seen. ” If they’re wearing a brand or style you’re familiar with, comment on it. Say, “I see you’re a fan of leather, too. That’s a great jacket. ”
Make eye contact and nod along. Repeat part of what they said back to them to show that you’re listening and care about what they say. For example, say, “Wow, I can’t believe that your lost dog walked across the state to get back to you. It’s so great that you guys were reunited. ”
After they tell you their favorite style of music, say, “I love alt-rock, too. There’s a local record store that holds free concerts a few times a month. ” Give them a chance to talk more about the topic or ask you something before you ask another question.
If there’s music playing, make a comment about the song. Say, “It’s been forever since I heard this song, but it still makes me feel like dancing. ”
Point out your goofs and laugh. This could be your gutter balls during bowling, your stray balls at mini golf, or the toppings that slid off your pizza.
Don’t tell them what you hate about your appearance. Don’t apologize for how you look.
For example, you and your date might be offered free tickets to a concert, you may come across a fireworks display or an outdoor event put on by your city, or you may notice an interesting venue near where you planned to have your date. Go with the flow. Don’t be locked into your plans if you have a chance to do something memorable.
Say, “I can’t believe you’ve never tried Hank’s Pizza. We should go sometime soon. ” Say, “I still think I can ice skate better than you can. Want to have a faceoff soon?”
Say, “Tonight was awesome! I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did. ”
Say, “I had such a great time last night. I’m glad you were there to witness my epic nacho fail. "
