Make the compliments specific to him. Think about what he likes, and what he does well. Tell him he does a great job in gym class if he’s into sports. Let him know that you really liked his English essay if he enjoys writing. Compliment him, but don’t overdo it. Too many compliments can seem insincere.
Do not pass a note during class, or you might get in trouble. Wait to pass a note in the hall or during lunch. The note can say anything you want. Short and sweet is flirtier than a sappy, long love letter, though. You can write “I’ve been thinking about you,” or “You look really awesome today. ”
If he is talking about a game he played, ask him to tell you more about how the game is played. Ask about what he likes to do after school, what he wants to do when he gets older, and what his favorite childhood memory is.
Find the humor in common things. Joke about the weather, about class, or something that happened in school. Think about your and your boyfriend’s sense of humor. What makes you laugh? What makes your boyfriend laugh? Those are the things you will want to joke and laugh about.
Use emoticons, especially the winks. Send him a text that you were happy to see him in class, or that you are looking forward to seeing him. Don’t text him back immediately when he responds. Wait at least a few minutes. Avoid sending a text in class. Wait for an appropriate time.
You can leave it open-ended by asking “What are you doing after school or this weekend?” Be specific by saying “I’ve been wanting to see this movie. Do you want to go with me?” Ask your parents permission if you are not yet at an appropriate dating age.
Don’t be too close to him if it’s inappropriate during class.
Try to hold hands for a short amount of time during school hours.
Spray some perfume on the back of your neck so that he will smell it when going in for a hug.
Avoid making out or prolonged kissing. This goes beyond flirting, and no one wants to see it in the hallway. Don’t feel pressured to kiss if you have never done it before. Only kiss when you feel it is the right time for you and your boyfriend.
Lean into him when having a conversation and look into his eyes. This will show him that you are paying attention to him. Don’t make it uncomfortable by widening your eyes and hardly blinking. Be natural and respectful. Make eye contact as you pass him in the hallway if you don’t have time to stop.
Make him a scrapbook of your relationship if you’ve been together for a while. Paint a picture. It can be of something to do with his favorite sport team or movie.
Say yes if he asks to attend any of your events. If you ask him to attend, and he says that he can’t, don’t be upset. Tell him that it’s okay, and he can attend another one. If he’s not part of a team, you can cheer him on while he’s playing a sport during gym class. Compliment and support his work if he’s into art, like film, drawing, or painting.
Don’t be shy if he asks what your favorite dessert or food is. Tell him if he asks. A relationship works both ways. It is not only your job to make him food, or do favors for him. If he makes something you are allergic to, tell him that you appreciate the thought, but you can’t eat it. Offer for him to share it with his friends instead. Baking cookies and brownies is simple and won’t be difficult to take with you to school. A cake is great, but it may be hard to transport. Ask your parents for help if you aren’t sure how to bake or make food.
Ask for help if you need it. Helping each other is a healthy part of any relationship. If you see that he’s struggling to carry his books, offer to hold one or two for him. Offer gently to help him with a project if he’s worried about completing it or doing it. Don’t help him cheat, but offering to take some stress off of him would be appreciated. Help him study for a test, or quiz him before an exam.
