There is also a misconception that “hot” means “sexy”, but they are not actually the same thing. “Sexy” means attractive in a more grown-up, mature way (where you do not need to have an edge). Think of the difference between a Megan Fox and Angelina Jolie. Angelina Jolie is mature and classy (which is where she gets her sexiness from), while Megan Fox is edgy, daring, and seductive (which is mostly what makes her “hot”).
You need to have a little edge. Think of the difference between a stereotypical rock star and a stereotypical teacher. If both are good-looking, you’d probably think of the rock star as hot, and the teacher as cute. Both are good, but if you want to be considered hot, flirting subtly or a tinge of rebelliousness helps.
If you’re having difficulty being comfortable in your own skin, try to find a different way of being with your body. For example, instead of criticizing your body, find ways to move in your body that feel good. Find an activity you enjoy doing where you use your body. This can help you improve your body image and appreciate what your body does for you — the more you use and appreciate your body, the more comfortable you will be with your body.
Exercising will also make you feel more comfortable in your own skin and happier to be who you are. This will make you look and feel hot, too. However, remember that the only person who can decide what’s good for you and your body is yourself. Body image dissatisfaction is rampant in our society, and you get to choose to love your body as it is. Always put your health first, not your weight. Remember, what you weigh is not more important than who you are.
No matter how hard you work out, if you show up smelling like you haven’t showered in a few days, not many people will consider you hot.
Trying fashion trends can help you become more noticed. Use jewelry. Look for earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings, or bangles. Don’t wear gym clothes, running shoes, or free crew neck T-shirts. Save those for when you work out. You can dress casually as long as you appear as though you put effort into the way.
As for guys, if you find one cut that really works for you, you can stick to it for a while. If you’re going bald, don’t underestimate how hot a fully shaved head can be. And a bit of gray is definitely hot, too.
Feel free to try makeup if you’re open to that style. Eyeliner in particular can be attractive on people of all genders, or you can just use concealer to cover up imperfections.
You don’t want people to be turned off because they think you’re a crybaby or a complainer. Make sure to project an image of yourself that isn’t childish.
If you’re talking to a friend and feel yourself getting angry, take a minute to take a breather and get to feeling calm again.
Being humble and modest can go a long way in making you look and feel hot. If you brag all the time, people won’t like you because they’ll think you’re full of yourself.
Being humble and modest can go a long way in making you look and feel hot. If you brag all the time, people won’t like you because they’ll think you’re full of yourself.
Hot people also don’t get too disappointed by rejection. Sure, rejection sucks, but don’t spend too long feeling sorry for yourself it’s just not worth it.
Gracious people know that they have to work for what they want and don’t think that they “deserve” to get the best of everything. If you really want to be hot, then you have to be kind and grateful about it, too.
Gracious people know that they have to work for what they want and don’t think that they “deserve” to get the best of everything. If you really want to be hot, then you have to be kind and grateful about it, too.
And if someone who you’re not into comes up to you, be as nice as you can about it. Just because you don’t think that person is hot or cool doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat them like a human being. Don’t act like you’re a queen or a king and that the person should beg for a minute of your time. Always be on equal footing with anyone you’re talking to.
