“Hey, Jane! What did you think about the new Avengers movie?” “Who are your best friends at school? What do you guys do together?” “What do you like to do after school?”

If she makes you angry, resist the urge to yell at her. If she’s bothering you while you’re trying to do homework, nicely tell her that you’re busy. Don’t use her things without permission, even if she uses yours.

Schedule some time to spend alone with your parents each week. Ask your parents if you can stay up an hour later than your sister. This will give you one-on-one time with your parents. Schedule family activities that will let you spend time with your parents and your sister together.

Graduating into a new grade Doing well on a test Successfully climbing a tall tree Doing well at a dance recital

Does she look up to you? Many younger sisters idolize their older siblings. How old is she? Were you a lot like her when you were that age? Think about the things that frustrate or anger her. Do they also frustrate you?

Speak calmly and respectfully even if you’re upset. Resist the urge to hit or push your sister. Listen to everything your sister says and think about her words.

Remember to stay calm when talking to your parents about your feelings.

“I can see that you’re upset with me. Why is that?” “I’m sorry I hurt your feelings. Tell me why so I won’t do it again. " “Why are you upset? Is there anything I can do?”

Taking turns using your favorite toy Sharing a piece of clothing that you both like to wear Taking your sister along sometimes when you hang out with your friends

“I’m sorry that I used your favorite hairbrush. I won’t do it again. " “I apologize for hurting your feelings. I really didn’t mean to. " “I’m sorry about eating the last cupcake. I didn’t think about whether or not you would want it. "

“What do you like to do for fun?” “What fun things do you like to do at school?” “Let’s play together! What do you want to do?”

There’s a difference between helping someone and doing their homework for them. If you give her all the answers, she won’t learn anything. [5] X Research source

Reading books Playing video games Drawing Playing on your phone

The park A local fair or festival A mutual friend’s house

Making her breakfast in the morning Leaving a nice note in her lunch box Taking her with you when you hang out with friends