If the person walks over to begin a conversation, maintain eye contact as you talk. People are attracted to those who pay attention to them. Holding someone’s gaze can help them feel special, making you come off as seductive. Do not hold eye contact for more than a few seconds if someone is not in conversation with you. You do not want to look like you’re staring.

Face the person when they’re talking. Keep your arms away from your chest. Do not put anything, like a purse or bag, on your lap. Lean slightly forward. This conveys a genuine interest in the other person, which can be a seductive quality.

For example, gently brush the person’s arm or wrist during a conversation. If seated, try brushing the person’s knees under the table.

Take genuine interest in what other people do. Ask questions like, “That sounds interesting? What’s it like teaching?” Pay people compliments that make them feel unique and special. For example, say something like, “It sounds like you work really hard. I bet you put in more effort than most into teaching. " As you’re complimenting someone, couple this with seductive body language. This will help you come off as irresistible.

When someone else is talking, give non-verbal cues to show you are listening. Nod, smile, and laugh when appropriate. Occasionally, reiterate what the other person has said to make sure you understood it. In turn, answer any questions the other person may have about you. Be willing to talk about your own job, friends, life, and family. Do not dominate the conversation, but create a sense of intimacy by openly sharing.

However, avoid playing games. Only leave if it makes sense to do so. For example, if it’s getting late on a date, it’s okay to duck out. Do not leave a date halfway through simply to look seductive. This is more likely to alienate the person.

You want something that shows off your best qualities. For example, if you have very muscular arms, go for a short sleeve t-shirt or button-down.

Be sure to avoid anything overpowering. Stick to subtle scents, like vanilla, over dramatic floral scents. Some people may be bothered by strong smells.

Remember, while red is great in clothing, bright reds for lipstick can be overwhelming.

Sweet-smelling shampoos can also help give you a seductive scent.