For example, if a girl you like is struggling with chemistry, offer to help her. Explain what she is having trouble with and try a lab experiment together. She’ll appreciate your knowledge and your effort.
Explain to her why you love Dungeons and Dragons. Offer to let her play with you and show her how much fun it can be.
Helping others in need is a great way to show a girl your sweet side, so offer to help a classmate understand a tricky concept in class or stand up to a bully that is picking on someone else.
Saying “I know I’m going to ace this test. I’m smarter than the teacher!” is an example of cockiness. Instead, confidently say “I’m prepared for this test so I think I’ll do well. ”
For example, if someone makes fun of the map of the Shire you keep in your locker, speak up. Explain how interesting and well thought-out the fantasy kingdom is, and tell them how important the books have been to you while growing up. Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated. If a person only talks to you when they want or need something, chances are you will do just fine without them in your life.
Try different activities and interests. You may just surprise yourself by enjoying the activity, and you will also meet new people. For example, instead of only attending Comic-Con, check out other events and expos as well. Attend a rodeo, go to a pop concert, see an action film, or tailgate before a sports game.
Though you may well-versed in all things George Lucas, she may love Shakespeare. Read her favorite play or poem, then invite her over to watch Star Wars together.
